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Andrew Christian
5/31/12

A Letter To Xander Tarigo

One of our readers and close friend of Xander Tarigo sent us a touching email  today accompanied by a YouTube Video. This is either the best sarcasm we've ever seen or Xander actually has a friend.
"Weho Confidential, I am trying to help my friend Xander Tarigo and was hoping you would post this in an attempt to get him to watch it. He is jobless and aimless and me and most people who know him are worried about his drinking and self destructive behavior. He has reckless unprotected sex with multiple people fueled by being drunk more nights than not during the week. He only cares about whats on the surface even though he has no means to provide this to himself and you can see he is spiraling in a deep depression which he tries to hide with drinking and anonymous sex that we his friends all know and talk about. That and now that he has lost his looks and is overweight he has become even more vapid and again results to alcohol and covering up his deep internal sadness with "surface". This has caused him to be incredibly insecure and talk badly about so many people. So many people I meet ask how I can be friends with him, in fact our entire group gets this question and we all laugh but the truth is he is the one guy that kinda just clings on and we feel sorry for him because we know he has a lot of problems. Many of us have tried to talk to him about this problem but like many self destructive people he wont listen and just drinks and talks crap about people more and more. He needs to stop relying on his parents at his age to pay for everything and get a job and get his life together. He really needs to watch this video on gay men and validation and know that his parent's house and parent's car and parent's wallet are never going to make him happy or make him feel "important" as desperately as he wants to feel important, but obviously dosen't inside. We all see this and he is starting to become a joke. Please help." The Video - 

xoxo
Misty

41 comments:

  1. Sad.

    This video was a great for anyone and everyone to watch.

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  2. The rest of Xander's sad posse should take heed as well:
    Simon Sherry-Wood, Nicolas Bru, Angelo Tsimourtos, and Scotty Cunha

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  3. Zing! Fuck all those vapid queens. But can we talk about Matthew Dempsey for a minute? I'm in love.

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  4. they all look tore-up as fuck. xander is nasty, disgusting...was he actually at one time attractive?? in the context this is somewhat amuzing, his so called friends should just call his parents and stage a private intervention...bc xander, simon and the rest of these 35+ year old delusional headcases are realy not very interesting at all

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  5. THIS IS FUCKING AMAZING AND ON POINT!!!

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  6. THIS IS POINT ON! He does nothing but talk trash about people when he himself has turned into the trash for which he speaks. He likes to deflect attention off himself (oops doesn't work). He is an embarrassment to the gay community and thinks of himself as truly A List. Oh Honey you are F List at best.

    Sad thing is he could clean up his life, get his body in check, and have friends who are friends and not the vapid posse that all deem themselves uber fab. Poor thing we pity your dirty soul and expanding waistline. We pray to the Gods to grant you serenity to get your life in check and be a truly fab gay man. Until then enjoy the chuckles behind your back.

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  7. "Starting" to become a joke? That is being very generous, he has been a joke for at least 3 or 4 years now. This is so true what value does Xander have to himself that he has provide with his own two hands? Nothing . Who is he? Does he even know who he is? What does he do, how does he help society and what place does he have in this world. Being a drunken shit talking sloppy fat mess is not much to feel good about himself, no wonder why he so insecure. Does he not realize that we all humor his loud sloppy antics when he comes stumbling around but when he leaves we all laugh and roll our eyes? He has no job no education and no value at all and this is coming from me a friend who actually "likes" him.

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  8. LOL, I call bullshit on this. No one who is a "close friend" would choose WeHoCon to distribute this message. Sounds like the writings of the twerps that run this site to me. And no, this isn't Xander (in fact, I agree with a good bit of the note's content).

    In closing, I will say this. I fucked Lucas John minus the condim and he called me daddy as I unloaded in his sloppy hole! Then he asked me for a bump and cab fare.

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  9. Bullshit....he stealing most of Oprah's quote from her last show. This is farce, a freakshow. What a loser!!!!

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  10. re: 8:09, Xander has not a single "close friend" maybe he considers them close but thats in his world, the rest of us would call them acquaintances. Simon maybe, but he has the personality of a goat and he himself should watch that video. Simon stands for nothing and just goes along with what everyone else around he tells him he should. Same goes for Scotty, who takes bareback loads from multiple people for years now, people I know happen to be positive. If he isnt already he is going to end up like George Papanikolas, another charming individual of this group. None of these people would run into a burning house to save Xander thats for sure, not like my "close friends" would for me. Does Xander actually think we think is is as fabulous as he pretends he feels? We all know the true story and the truth is no one really can stand him. Its odd cause he seems to have a lot of friends. Case in point we were at Summertramop this weekend and he floated from group to group and twice i was part of the group and we all laughed with him like he was the court jester some of us even hugged hello (reluctantly as he kinda threw his drunkin heavy sweating body on us) but soon as he floated off to another group like clockwork everyone would start talking about what a loser, mess, piece of work, toxic etc etc etc he was. Really no one cares enough about him to actually confront him or waste the energy telling him to fuck off. He is one of those LA anomalies like Pinks hot dogs or that old donut shop with the big donut, you laugh at it but never want to actually go there as you will probably get food poisoning. Id like to say I feel sorry for him, but i really dont, at this point he is the running butt of everyones jokes and thats just to good to put a stop to.

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  11. ONE OF THE BEST POSTS IN AGES!! SOMEONE AT MY GYM SHOWED ME THIS THIS MORNING AND I HAD TO COME READ THE COMMENTS, HE ALWAYS GEST THE MOST HATEFUL ONES. LOVE IT!

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  12. I am sorry but this message came a little too late. Melissa Brown already taped an inspirational message for Xander in a cassette player from the 80s and was delivered to him 3 days ago

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  13. This video needs to be watched by that entire sad group.

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  14. HAHA!!!! He is the most hated person in Weho.

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  15. SCOTT CUNHA definetly needs his own post on here and watch the comments come flooding in. He is POSitivly one of the biggest barebacking plague spreading receptacles in all of LA. If there is a bareback top giving loads he has definetly taken them at one time or another. BEWARE. Oh and BRAD BAERTSCH get on notice cause you are next you load taking barebacking bottom cum dump. That's right we all know boys.

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  16. I saw him buying an orchid and two sparkling waters at TJ's the other day... lol

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  17. This post solves nothing. Losers like this and everyone else who gets posted about on this site are people who are so pathetic that any attention, negative or positive, feeds their insecure ego. You think that bashing them is going to make them actually change their ways? Give me a break. It just gives them validation to keep doing what they're doing because at least people are paying attention to them, which is exactly what they want. They're like that spoiled rotten child you see throwing a tantrum in a super market. We're better off all ignoring and stop talking about these sad, pathetic people and telling our friends to do the same until eventually either they change their ways or they fade away into the background like so many losers that came before them. For god sakes if you can't spot these pieces of shit a mile away and actually get to know them and allow them to travel in your social circle friends you have no one to blame, but yourself. That speaks more to you and and your self worth that you'd let people like that around you.

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  18. HOLY BLAST! But homeboy is still cute. I'd fuck him still.

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  19. Played out. We've been down this round a thousand times. We get it.

    Get some new material, Lucas.

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  20. That's what happens when you are a careless bareback bottom...he came bragging from the white party about a month ago, saying that he took 54 raw loads up in his fuckhole in less than 48 hours...thats sad and depressing...just sayin gurlllll

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  21. Everyone knows this about Xander. It's common knowledge that he is a pathetic mess. He will literaly get off on fabricating a complete lie about someone and spreading it around to who ever will listen. He will also talk massive amounts of shit about his so calle friends and kiss them hello 5 mins later. He is a fat is gross mess and everyone is well aware of it at this point. No one takes anything he says as the truth and point blank he is not even taken seriously as a person. He's a waste and a joke and can't be trusted or relied on. He will turn on you on a millisecond, we alll know this, even his friends. He has burned more bridges and has the worst rep in weho for a reason.

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  22. OMG that boy was outta control in at the white party. He stole a package of syringes that Sharon Needles was going to use for her show and a bologna sandwich that Jeffrey Sanker bought for Latrice Royale. He was the talk of the whole partay

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  23. Xander is so sad and lost. He really is pathetic and what's worse he is incredibly nasty and mean, makes you not even feel sorry for him.

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  24. Has anyone notice how washed up his face looks? He has gotten so incredibly bloated too. Big fat bean eating wetback lol.

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  25. Does anyone know his T cell count? Just kuz he is fat doesn't have anything to do with being rotten in the inside

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  26. I agree this is the same tired shit over and over. What did he do to you, not give the ball back at the playground?

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  27. I never get tired of seeing just how many people dispise this tool bag.

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  28. I don't know Xander well enough to pick sides on this post but what I can say is that I feel bad that this many people are so passionately full of hate towards someone.

    He may (or may not) be all these nasty things but he is still a person. Think twice about what you put out there because Karma can be a real bitch..

    If you've been personally burned by him, light some dog shit on his front porch but don't fuel gossip..

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  29. @2:57 Karma IS a bitch, hense the posts and exposing him for who he is over and over again by several hundred people on this site.

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  30. Hasn't nearly everyone been burned by him personally? I think that is the reason there are at least 10 posts on this site about him all with nearly a hundred or more comments. Take a hint Xander people don't like you and although you are dumb as a doorknob, i'm sure even you can figure out why. Maybe put on your weird little black gloves, that may help lol. Sidenote, PLEASE PLEASE stop assaulting our eyes, keep your shirt on.

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  31. oh gurl, the hussie will be working her laughable stuff at Equinox by 2 pm no doubt after crawling out of herz bed or hiz beds or whozeverz beds lol Khardashian Klass all the way.

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  32. In my humble opinion, Xander (a mess, i know) is kinda funny and has always been kind to me. He definitely gets caught up in the energy that entire group puts out but at least he has some personality, unlike Simon, who is as clever as an ALDO shoe. I mean, we know you're hot but Jesus Christ, man- read a fucking book. He CAN read, right? RIGHT??? At least Xander is the leader of his group. Even if the those [diligently] following him are people like WEHO's newest bareback cum dumpster, Brad Baertsch, who definitely skipped out on getting tested to buy a new protein shaker ("but it came with a blender ball!"). Yeeeesh. The things people will do to feel like they're part of something.

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  33. to 10:59

    I agree yet disagree. I think he was or thought he was leader of the "pack" of his 4 but I think the others have outgrown him and he is now the follower. The other's are social climbing experts unlike Xander who doesn't know what to do with the ladder. I suggest that pack of 4 take a good hard look at themselves, their energy, their dynamics, and make some choices to help themselves. At the end of the day no one likes a bitter biatch!

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  34. DarkShadowofWehoJune 2, 2012 at 3:42 PM

    So many damaged ppl in Weho. That man's video makes all these other jokes look like just that, jokes.

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  35. Why do I predict.. Mr Simon Sherry WOOD and Angelo are distancing themselves from this mess as we speak. Those gurls have a reputation to manage! They are more than likely saying oh gurl out with the trash in with US! You go babes

    xxoo

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  36. Everyone knows Simon Sherry Wood is a hooker. I mean a real no joke honest to goodness hooker. As in exchanges sex for money. Im being serious.

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  37. You all seem to follow this group quite closely

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  38. I feel so badly that this so called "friend" needed to start what has become a hateful blog. If this is your best attempt to help a friend, I feel that you should look at your own skills pertaining to being a functioning adult. It appears more as though your objective here was to have a community bashing of Xander. I can't imagine Xander going out of his way to blog, insult and put down anyone as you have done here. Every person has characteristics about themselves that can be improved. As for this "friend" who is so concerned about Xander, I would encourage you to concern yourself more so with your numerous grammatical errors that so tragically decorate your letter. Lastly, if you dislike someone so much, leave them alone. First try to help, if that is not well received, maybe that is when you move on. It is not your job to try to make someone's life more difficult by making that person feel hated. In this whole situation, Xander and his friends who have also fallen victim to this childish post, are not the ones who should be embarrassed by this page. Good luck to all of you.

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  39. I disagree 12:42.

    Xander would go out of his way to be vile to others. He is evil bitter washed up want to be queen.

    If he only had a heart makeover, a personality makeover, and were normal and nice (like Simon) he may be able to be part of the Weho scene.

    Ladies behave.

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